29 January 2012

Time For Me

I often come across books by accident.  Since I got an e-reader and am downloading library books rather than going and browsing the shelves it happens less than it used to, but every now and then one of the new titles highlighted on the library webpage will catch my eye.  That is how I found these books . . .

Anyone who knows me could tell you that I am an introvert.  I have always known it, and while I have never felt it was a negative aspect of my personality, it has brought challenges and there have been times I have wished that I could be more outgoing or comfortable in social situations.  So when I saw the title The Happy Introvert : The Wild and Crazy Guide for Celebrating Your True Self by Elizabeth Wagele, I was intrigued.  The name itself was such a contradiction -- I don't know any introverts who are wild and crazy.  That's kind of the point of being an introvert, we shy away from wild and crazy and are comfortable with sedate and sane.  It also sounded like a fun read, so I downloaded it.  It was less fun that the title implied it would be (to be expected I guess considering the subject matter), but also more informative than I expected.  I actually did gain some insight into my own character and some helpful information about my opposites.  I recommended the book to Matt and a friend who is also an extrovert married to an introvert.  She will probably read it, Matt will probably not.

I would also recommend it to parents who are raising an introverted child.  There is a chapter about kids and teenagers which got me thinking about where Isaac fell on the spectrum of outgoingness.  He has a lot of my personality traits, but he can also be quite a ham.  I do think, however, that he has more introvert in him than extrovert.  I worry about this because I know how hard it will be for him to be accepted and to accept himself.  I already am concerned that he doesn't seem to have many friends at school.  But knowing who you are is an important step toward being comfortable in your skin and accepting yourself.  It is my job to help him along.  And to accept him as he is, introvert or extrovert, loud or quiet, athletic or studious, or any number of other sides of the same coin.  I think I can do that -- he's a pretty cool kid, after all.

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At the state school library conference last fall, one of the lunch speakers was Jennifer Pharr Davis. She is a hiker who recently broke the overall speed record for a thru-hiker on the Appalachian Trail.  Her book about her first thru-hike on the AT, Becoming Odyssa, popped up on the recently added titles list on the library website a few weeks ago.  I have been wanting to read it, so it was a no-brainer download.  She is almost ten years younger than me and I wish I could be her.  I have been wanting to hike the AT for years, since Matt and I listened to Bill Bryson's A Walk in the Woods years ago on a trip to Florida, as a matter of fact.  Do I think I could make it or that I would enjoy it?  No, not really.  After reading Davis' book, I think it's even more unlikely that it would be something that I could actually do.  I think it is not the actual hiking or experience that I want.  What I really want is to be the type of person who would do it.  I want to be able to put aside societal expectations and just be able to enjoy what is around me.  I want to be the type of person who doesn't care about how I look (or smell), who doesn't care about material things and can live out of a backpack for months.  I admire the strength of the hikers who can take on that challenge and complete it and wish my body were that strong.  And taking the time to do something that is a months long endeavor?  I want to be able to set side my everyday life for that long and forget about money and work and responsibilities.

Taking the time to hike the AT seems more impossible to me since Isaac was born.  But he is now part of my dream.  I imagine us on a mother-son hike in a few years, before he goes to college.  The reality will probably be that he is a typical angsty teenager who can't stand his mother, but it's a nice dream.

I am thinking about recommending Becoming Odyssa to our church youth minister.  I think it would be a great book for high schoolers to read, especially the girls, before they go to college.  Maybe Isaac will read it when he is older and want to go on a hike with his mother.

03 January 2012

Literate Partners

A friend shared this post on Facebook a few weeks ago.  I wanted to share it here, but thought I would wait until I was finished with my holiday/ winter book post-a-thon.

Isaac is only 6, so he has a while to go before he dates, but I am sure I will be giving him plenty of advice on the kind of girl he should go out with.  He could do a lot worse than a girl who reads.

A Girl You Should Date

Dating a guy who reads isn't bad advice for the girls, either.

02 January 2012

What to Read in 2012

The "best of" lists were published in December.  I looked through them and began thinking about some of our favorite books from this past year, not all of them new titles.  Here are my choices from what we read in 2011, in no particular order:


Interrupting Chicken  by David Ezra Stein
The Astonishing Secret of Awesome Man by Michael Chabon
Everything On It by Shel Silverstein
Wonderstruck by Brian Selznick (I did not blog about this one, but I wanted to include it on my list anyway.)
Once Upon  a Cool Motorcycle Dude by Kevin O'Malley
If Rocks Could Sing by Leslie McGuirk
Art and Max by David Wiesner

Here are some other lists you may want to check out when looking for reading material in 2012:


School Library Journals Best Books of 2011

New York Times Best Illustrated Books of 2011

New York Times Notable Children's Books of 2011

ALA will be coming out with their Notables lists and awards in a couple of weeks.  I am particularly interested in the Caldecott this year because I have a friend on the committee.  I will post those when they are available.

Happy Reading.